I was in Cheers Cafe about a month ago when I sat down with my friend Lois Ciali for a nice chat. She saw me sitting at the end of the bar gazing not into space but at the paneled walls and the Steelers signs and the pictures of friends with friends. I was thinking about her husband, the late Jimmy “Goose” Ciali. He employed me as a part-time bartender through the years. My first stint was in 1991, right after I got married.  My wife and I had an apartment a few blocks up the